My Love – Naturally Forced Existence – What is love? How to being loveable? Whom to love? Let me answer it in my own episodes.
My Love – Naturally Forced Existence
What is love?
Love is a force of nature. It’s not been taught to you and you might not learn it. Its a force which started existing in you as soon you born, it starts from your mother through your father. So your first force of love is your parents. I devote my love and life to my parents. So in other words love is devotion or naturally forced devotion. Love is inherently free because its free you. My parents made me free and my devotion towards my parents makes my love possible to anything, anywhere and anytime. Because Love cannot be turned on as a reward. It cannot be turned off as a punishment. It is a naturally forced existence.
How to being lovable?
“Well, first and foremost, almost everyone lovable…’ and I love myself as you love yourself. So for me, it is certainly not how you being loveable to others but how I being loveable for myself. When I love myself, I start to love anyone or anything. Does the question come how we first realised we are loveable? it must be in your teenage time. Isn’t? I realised or experienced my first love when I was 14. In simple words, we all might be experienced or realised this teenage infatuation.
The teenager in me experienced the love towards her, the way she looks, she smiles, her hairs even her feet. But most of the teenagers in us never taking it forward this realization. But I did it in another way, I took it forward and slowly it become in me. My love becomes my passion, my ambitions, my dreams and most of all my reality.
Vismithams is not only my love but its a journey, my realizations and my expressions. Thoughts can be borrowed or copied, persons can be followed but not your dreams. You should follow your dreams and your existences. For me, vismithams is my dream and I express it while being in free. For me, Vismtihams has its beginning or start and it existing in me but not ending, vismithams does not have an end. Your dreams never have an end. I love myself, being I am and be in vismithams.
Whom to love?
Love is a force of nature. However much we may want to, we can not command, demand, or take away love, any more than we can command the moon and the stars and the wind and the rain to come and go according to our whims. You can invite love, but you cannot dictate how, when, and where love expresses itself. You can even find yourself loving people you don’t like at all. Love does not come with conditions, stipulations, addenda, or codes. Like the sun, love radiates independently of our fears and desires.
Love is inherently free. you cannot make someone love you, nor can you prevent it.
In our young ages, we mostly interpret love with sex. But love certainly not sex. In modern time one can buy sex partners and even marriage partners but not your love or not the love you receive. Marriage has become a matter for the law and for rules, but certainly, there are many exceptions to it. In the past, the marriage price, or dowry, and in the present, alimony and the pre-nuptial agreement, make it clear that marriage is all about contracts. But as we all know, marriages, whether arranged or not, may have little to do with love.
The way love as forced existence received from your parents, you start loving your children immediately when they born. The cycle of love flow thereafter. As you grow, love or true love will take its own clarity or clear form. One should love all and nature. Because love is free and makes you free.
My love, vismithams made me free so that I can be lovable or loved. In vismitham’s own words, We born, We realized, We existing for the rule of law but our love is natural and eternal. It forced in us through our parents and it will flow in us till we lived.
‘Our love has its start but not end. Its flows and its make us a good human being the day after day. Our Love cares what becomes of you because love knows that we are all interconnected. Love is inherently compassionate and empathic. Love knows that the “other” is also oneself’. This is the true nature of love, and Love honors the sovereignty of each soul.
Keep loving yourself, love your dreams and your free forced existence.
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Note: the above article on love is inspired by my own life journey, thoughts, beliefs and experiences thus cannot be correlated, interconnected, misrepresent with anything or anyone. Read and understand one’s own ability to learn.